Tag: lessons
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Unraveling the Lies
Confronting the Deep-Seated Beliefs that Shaped Me Disclaimer: This post reflects my personal journey of discovering deep-seated beliefs and patterns that influenced my relationships. It is not meant to blame or shame anyone involved in my past but to share my experience in hopes of encouraging others who may be struggling with similar challenges. Healing…
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Abandonment’s Legacy
Our early experiences can have a profound impact on how we navigate relationships as adults. For years, I didn’t realize how much my past was influencing my present—shaping my actions, my expectations, and even my sense of self-worth. It wasn’t until I started recognizing these patterns that I began the journey toward healing. Along the…
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The Phantom Father

For years, I fought to earn his love, convinced that his absences were reflections of my own shortcomings. I was sure that if I could just try harder, be better, he would finally choose me. Then, at 35, I discovered the truth that unraveled everything I thought I knew about myself.
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To the Woman Who Never Felt Good Enough

Hey Girl! I see you. I see those parts of you that have always craved validation, longing for someone to tell you that you’re enough just as you are. You’ve carried that weight for so long, haven’t you? It’s like a shadow that’s always there, whispering that you need to do more, be more, achieve…
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At the Center

Fam, I didn’t think I’d be back so soon with another post, yet here we are! Ever noticed how God tends to give us answers before we even realize we need them? Just yesterday, I was chatting with a friend and found myself posing what I thought were random, rhetorical questions. Yet, this morning, it…
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2022 Win #1
At the end of every year, I take time to reflect on the year’s wins, losses, lessons, etc. I’m starting a little earlier than usual. (Blame The Best Man: the Final Chapters…lol) I’ve struggled with rejection most of my life. So much so, that it has often kept me from taking risks or stepping out…
